It usually start with age and then experience and than denomination.
I am one of those cult female gang who strongly disagree to the concept of dedicating days to the specific community -while we discuss equality.
Having said that I more relate my concept of being women into leaving that whole next level of self loathe ,the critical eye brow raised analysis leading too utterly non understandable judgements.
Let me relate the concept with my brave instagram post which talks about insecurities about thoughts , about the bones and flesh ,about the scratches and stitches and the list can go on just like that never ending zara sale in the outlet next door( in literal terms its been running from 2 months ,already)
My idea of women as a human first is to sort out the dealings with basic insecurities.
I have done that -always or most I can recall in my memory list.I started with my flesh ratio and almost cribbed about my entire teenageMy loathing (sometimes still ) confuses my mind about my half a dozen cheek on each side of my face .Cheeks are essential says the audience whenever I used to crib about the face fat which I hold.
I gave it a break a while back! Accepted and world changed..for better!
My love for netflix and under eye acknowledgement!
I have been living for/in sunglasses for almost a decade. Every morning I used to fill up the pit under my eye with loads of guilt and unnecessary and much over priced eye or no eye creams
These days I am rather letting it fill or squeezed with my under eye laugh lines(they do exist ,yeah)
In this shoot or while the shoot- i actually had my series of sunglasses ready.But somehow I chose not to wear it – its good to accessories to add an oomph in the over all divas tic combination but to hide the insecurity dwelling within is a false idea.
(my brain when open ,tries to think)
My false belief of hating curves- almost every year chronologically I remember making a promise to myself about getting rid or eradicate the curve in the side or the back.
I tried and played hard with my body and the grumpy expressions I use to throw at it , and now quite the contrary I feel more about the fitness and less about the curve (either side)
Curves are good or essential (says the kim)
I also focussed hard on my internal fitness about what goes inside of this untamed mind and brain.The bindi which I usually encompass on my forehead irrespective of the clothes I drape gives me enough power to hold it together and creates the magic along with the more like-me million females in the country every morning .
I tried holding my attitude together while understanding the exact meaning behind it.
Laughing off on the past and the outstanding history is what I have learnt and taught.
Laugh is worth it -wherever or ever -non circumstantial -It should exist..
Braces or no braces -it should exist..
So here I wish happy women’s day to the humans of the constitution. Believe in the fact of universe and just go with it with a smile on.
Plan- achieve- conquer , as said always rule the kingdom your way ,if you feel like a queen!